Thanks Neil i will do that in the future :-)
My team was spit up and dished out to other managers this week, they were upset about losing me but mostly about losing each other and moving floors (our call centre is split over two floors, the ground floor is a much nicer(positive and enthuastic!) environment to work in.... and they have all been placed upstairs.
We had the best team spirit and produced good results!
My boss offered to stay with me while i told them but i refused, She wanted to tell them all together in a briefing, this horrified me as i knew the news would upset many and i felt they deserved to know from me, individually.
As it happened they were upset anyway, i got upset because they were (cried), the union got involved and tried to keep them on the same floor.it was chaos!!
My c.s.m. refused point blank to let me be involved in which managers my advisors were going to and i found out 5 mins before i told them. Dispite the disruption the decisions remained the same (buisness needs? - but no explaination given) and i advised them all in the most positive way i could... take the team values with you etc...
Everything had calmed down by Friday and we had a fun `goodbye goodluck` briefing... Until my c.s.m decided to have a `one to one` she told me she was disapointed in how upset i was and i shouldnt have shown my team my feelings, i should have remained proffessional and accepted the decisions made with no questions asked. In fairness she did wish me well in my new post at the end but i didnt take it in at all.
I would be interested in all your opinions on this situation as i have now left the department feeling `knocked` and i really dont know how i could have made this situation better? I am a new manager (8 months) and this was my first team. |