TELECONNECTING TIP - “Matching Energy”
My name is LoriAnne Hancock. For the past eight years I have been developing Teleconnecting Skills and Concepts. These have been primarily developed around the proactive follow-up satisfaction "Courtesy Call", which effectively measures customer satisfaction while placing an exclamation mark on your customer’s/employee’s decision to do business with you.”
MATCHING ENERGY:
Whether making outbound calls, taking inbound calls, or getting homefrom work to your family, one excellent skill to be aware of is "Matching Energy".
A prime example of UNMATCHED energy is when you answer the phone in a sleepy stupor to find an excited friend at the other end. Unless you gear up or they gear down, there will not be a starting place to bring the conversationn together.
When you are trying to connect with people on the phone, there are some vocal dynamics you can practice which will increase information flow. Try it, you will understand what I'm saying.
Another word for 'Matching Energy' is mirroring, but I think mirroring is more for in-person connections.
When you get good at this, you will be able to 'Match Energy' with anyone and possibly everyone around you (one on one), as well as, with people on the phone. The skill will make you more sensitive to another's receptivity when you wish to bring up a subject, impart information, ask for a raise,etc.
MATCHING ENERGY:
1. SPEED: The truth is, people listen most efficiently at about the same speed, tone and pitch that they talk. If you slow-poke your words to a New Yorker, they're going to say, "What?" - and have you off the line. If you speed your words past someone from a slower speaking State like Georgia, they're going to say, "What?" Matching Energy with the person you are speaking with will more than likely result in a productive/pleasing exchange.
2. PITCH/TONE: While you can match the tonal range of the person you are speaking with, take care to be aware of tones (sarcasm, negativity, etc.) which you DO NOT wish to reflect back. You can easily calm an excitable person with your tone.
3. BODY LANGUAGE: In person, matching body language, sitting, standing, etc., can increase the chance for a connection between two people.
If you like my "Teleconnecting Tips", and use them, please let me know via e-mail @ lorianne@teleconnecting.com. I seek and very much appreciate feedback of all kinds.
@ Your Service,
LoriAnne Hancock
JTE UNlimited
Boise, ID USA
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